Rooted in the profound wisdom of Family Constellations, this guided experience helps you uncover the unseen dynamics that shape your relationships, health, identity, and path in life, and gently return what was never yours to carry.
āI finally understand why I over-give to everyone, including people who never asked. This course handed me language, rituals, and a deep exhale.ā
~ Catherine S., Therapist & Mum of 3
Why do you keep repeating the same relationship patterns, even after years of therapy?
Why do you feel guilty for succeeding when your parents struggled?
Why do you carry anxiety that doesn't seem to belong to you?
Why do you feel like an outsider in your own family - or in life itself?
Every family has invisible threads connecting its members across generations. These threads carry love, but they also carry trauma, secrets, and unresolved pain.
And someone in the next generation - often the most sensitive, loving member - unconsciously tries to restore that balance by carrying what doesn't belong to them.
You might be carrying:
ā¢ Your grandmother's grief from losing a child
ā¢ Your father's shame about his business failures
ā¢ Your great-grandfather's guilt from the war
ā¢ Your mother's unexpressed rage at being silenced
ā¢ The family's collective trauma from immigration, abuse, or loss
But it's also why your personal healing work sometimes feels like you're swimming upstream. You're not just healing yourself - you're trying to heal generations of pain.
Family Constellations is a powerful healing modality developed by Bert Hellinger that reveals the hidden dynamics operating in family systems.
1. Belonging - Everyone in the family system has a right to belong, including those who were excluded, forgotten, or rejected.
2. Hierarchy - There's a natural order in families: parents before children, earlier generations before later ones, first child before second child.
3. Balance - Love flows best when there's a healthy balance of giving and receiving between family members.
When these orders are disrupted, symptoms appear: anxiety, depression, relationship problems, money blocks, chronic illness, addiction, and feeling like you don't belong anywhere.
When the orders are restored, life energy flows again - often with surprising speed.
ā You keep repeating relationship patterns despite knowing better
You attract the same type of partner, have the same fights, or recreate the same dynamics you swore you'd avoid.
ā You feel like you're carrying emotions that aren't yours
Chronic guilt, anxiety, depression, or rage that seems disproportionate to your actual life experiences.
ā You're the "black sheep" or scapegoat of your family
You've been blamed, excluded, or made to feel like you don't belong, yet you can't seem to fully separate.
ā You struggle with success, money, or receiving good things
You sabotage opportunities, undercharge for your work, or feel guilty when life goes well.
ā You're an over-giver who can't say no
You take care of everyone else first, feel responsible for other people's emotions, and struggle with boundaries.
ā You feel disconnected from your roots or ancestry
Whether through adoption, estrangement, or cultural displacement, you feel like you don't know where you come from.
Module 1: Introduction to Family ConstellationsUnderstanding the Invisible Field
ā¢ What family constellations are and how they work
ā¢ The morphic field that connects all family members
ā¢ How to explore your system safely and gently
ā¢ Mapping your family tree and identifying key patterns
ā¢ Practice: Creating your family genogram
Module 2: Belonging - The First Order of LoveEveryone Has a Place
ā¢ Why everyone in the family system deserves to belong
ā¢ Common exclusions: miscarriages, adoptions, "difficult" relatives, family secrets
ā¢ How exclusions create symptoms in later generations
ā¢ The healing power of acknowledgment and inclusion
ā¢ Practice: Candle ritual for excluded family members
Module 3: Hierarchy - The Second Order of LoveHonouring the Natural Order
ā¢ The natural hierarchy in healthy family systems
ā¢ Common disruptions: parentification, role reversals, rejecting parents
ā¢ How children unconsciously try to "save" their parents
ā¢ Restoring proper order between generations
ā¢ Practice: Timeline mapping and river movement exercise
Module 4: Balance - The Third Order of LoveThe Flow of Giving and Receiving
ā¢ How love flows best when there's balance between giving and receiving
ā¢ Why over-giving creates resentment and distance
ā¢ The hidden dynamics behind people-pleasing and codependency
ā¢ How to restore healthy exchange in relationships
ā¢ Practice: Balancing ritual and boundary-setting exercises
Module 5: Integration - Living the Orders of LoveBringing Healing into Daily Life
ā¢ How to maintain your new awareness in daily interactions
ā¢ When to seek additional support or community
ā¢ Creating rituals and practices that honour your lineage
ā¢ Taking your rightful place in the river of life
ā¢ Practice: Integration meditation and ongoing practices
ā 5 Comprehensive Video Modules (2.5+ hours of expert teaching)
Deep dives into each Order of Love with real-world examples and applications
ā 45-Page PDF Guidebook - "The Orders of Love"
A comprehensive reference guide to Family Constellations and systemic healing
ā Guided Visualisations (Audio Downloads)
Powerful healing journeys to connect with your ancestral field
ā Healing Sentences (Audio & PDF)
Specific phrases that help restore order and flow in your family system
ā Ritual Instructions (PDF Downloads)
Step-by-step guides for candle rituals, ancestor honouring, and integration practices
ā Family Mapping Templates (PDF Downloads)
Tools to create your genogram and track family patterns
ā Lifetime Access
Return to the materials whenever you need deeper understanding or support
ā Email Support
Ask questions as they arise during your journey
ā Adoptive & donor-conceived families
ā Estranged or unknown biological roots
ā Same-sex and blended parenting
ā Multicultural, multi-faith, and diaspora lineages
ā Names missing, stories lost, or silence passed down
ā Families affected by war, immigration, or displacement
ā Families with addiction, mental illness, or abuse
You are welcome here, just as you are, with whatever family story you carry.
If those words stir something inside you, click Enrol Now and let the Orders of Love begin to move on your behalf.
All of this for just USD$97
"I finally understand why I over-give to everyone, including people who never asked. This course handed me language, rituals, and a deep exhale. For the first time in my life, I feel like I have permission to live my own life."~ Catherine S., Therapist & Mother of 3
"After the balance module, I asked my sister to handle Dad's medical bills instead of silently doing it all. My body felt 5kg lighter. I didn't realise how much I was carrying that wasn't mine."~ Leo M., Social Worker
"The belonging candle ritual finally gave my miscarried baby a place in our family. The constant ache in my chest that I'd carried for 8 years softened overnight. My living children noticed the change immediately."~ Amelia W., Artist & Mother
"I always felt like the black sheep, like I didn't belong anywhere. Understanding the family dynamics helped me see that my sensitivity wasn't a flaw - it was my gift. I was the one chosen to break the cycle."~ David R., Entrepreneur
Complete Course Investment: $197 - $97
What you get for less than $20 per module:
ā¢ 2.5+ hours of expert Family Constellations teaching
ā¢ 45-page comprehensive guidebook
ā¢ Lifetime access to all materials and updates
ā¢ A completely new understanding of your family patterns
ā¢ Tools to restore balance and flow in your relationships
It's time to stop carrying what was never yours and start living the life that is.
Q: Do I need to know my family history to benefit from this course?
A: No. Even if names, dates, or stories are missing, the systemic patterns still operate. We work with what you know and trust that the field will reveal what's needed.
Q: What if my family was abusive or toxic?
A: This work doesn't ask you to excuse abuse or maintain contact with harmful people. It helps you understand the systemic patterns while maintaining healthy boundaries.
Q: Can I do this work if I'm adopted or don't know my biological family?
A: Absolutely. Adoptive families create their own systemic patterns, and we can work with both your biological and adoptive systems as appropriate.
Q: Is this a replacement for therapy?
A: No, this is complementary to therapy. Many students find it enhances their therapeutic work by providing a systemic perspective on their patterns.
Q: What if I don't believe in "energy" or "fields"?
A: You don't need to believe in anything mystical. Family Constellations can be understood purely through psychology, attachment theory, and intergenerational trauma research.
Q: How is this different from genealogy or family history research?
A: While family history focuses on facts and dates, Family Constellations focuses on emotional patterns, loyalties, and the flow of love through generations.
Tracy Malone is a Family Constellations facilitator trained in the Hellinger tradition and trauma-informed approaches to systemic healing.
With over 15 years of experience in trauma healing and family systems work, Tracy has helped hundreds of people understand and transform their family patterns.
Her approach combines traditional Family Constellations wisdom with modern trauma-informed care, making this powerful work accessible and safe for sensitive souls ready to reclaim their lives.
Tracy's own journey through complex family trauma and her path to healing informs every aspect of her teaching, bringing both professional expertise and lived experience to this transformative work.
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